My Xenons are fantastic - they are possibly a little high on low beam as I also get flashed occassionally however it is usually as you are coming over a rise in the road and the other driver is below the "normal" height. When I drive my wife's Golf V - which I thought had terrific lights - I now have to check to see that they are on!! Would suggest you get yours checked - maybe the auto levelling function is not working correctly. I especially like the slow turn side lights. Good Luck