I've ordered the MFSW with paddles for my Eos 2.0T DSG - you'll see from the UK brochure that there are 2 optional MFSW's - one with and one without the paddles. It seems therefore that you need to specify and pay the extra to get the paddles - it's £240 from memory.
It might not be too late for your dealer to amend the order if it's not due till March - worth a call and persevere if he says it's too late - mae sure he checks !
My new Eos Sport TDI with DSG was delivered yesterday, I had ordered it with the Multifunction paddle steering wheel £240, and when the dealer processed the ordered to VW,they ordered the MFSW for DSG box, but when it arrived the paddles were not fitted.
I contacted VW Customer Care to inquirer if the correct wheel with the paddles could be retrofitted at a later date, but was informed that it would not possible to do.
A bit disappointing after waiting six months for delivery to find out that my order had gone wrong somewhere between the order I signed and what was delivered.
As a result the dealer did not charge me for the wrong MFSW, but it has taken a bit of the shine of my new EOS purchase, don't know if I will miss the paddles, time will tell.